The new wedding etiquette: who pays, what’s in, and why

There’s no ‘proper’ way to get married. Readers and industry experts share wedding rules to help things run a little smoother

It’s virtually impossible to talk about weddings without eliciting strong opinions about what’s right or wrong.

While some feel it’s necessary to have a bridal party in matching gowns and suits, others feel that’s outdated. Traditional vows may ring true to one couple, but deeply inauthentic to another. In 2024, is there really one proper way to throw or attend a wedding? The short answer is no. But there are some ways to make it easier for all involved.