Let’s face it: geeks wear their hearts on their sleeves. We have no problem diving headfirst into our passions and expressing ourselves wholeheartedly. But when it comes to dating, finding someone who respects that enthusiasm can feel like cracking an impossible code.
For women, it can involve a lot of creepy guys who are chasing their manic pixie dream girl. For men, it’s a constant dance to avoid being labeled “that guy.” And if you’re in the majority of geeks who are a little bit introverted, dating can be more than a little intimidating.
Are there dating sites for geeks?
Yes, there are a handful of niche dating sites designed specifically for nerds, but you may not need them.
We compared the internet’s top dating sites, trendy swiping apps, and geek-specific platforms to find the ones where proud nerds can express themselves and find that twin flame. Hidden among millions and millions of users, you could find someone who shares your most obscure passions and interests, whether it’s an endless debate about whether there will ever be a Pokémon game as good as Pokémon Emerald or the perfect couple’s cosplay inspired by your favorite Star Trek characters. Bonus: they’re all readily accessible via the App Store and the Google Play Store.
Just remember this: Even if a potential match doesn’t share your specific hobby or interest, they could still be the right partner for you. Don’t fall for this common geek relationship fallacy. What’s more important is that they respect your most nerdy obsessions, and vice versa.
You’ll notice that we no longer include any geek-specific sites (e.g., Soul Geek, Gamer Dating, Dating for Muggles) in our recommendations because we found these niche dating sites to be out-of-date — you can find more info on this decision in our ‘How we tested’ section below.
Here are our top picks for the best dating sites for geeks, nerds, and anyone passionate about their niche hobbies:
